Thursday, August 7, 2008

Wanna Booze?

These days the song “Main talli ho gayi” from the film ‘Ugly aur Pagli’ is gaining a lot of popularity. And it makes me wonder why alcohol (or the so-called “Drinks”) intake has become the coolest and the most “In” thing today? Why boozing has become the so-called ‘social norm'? Since childhood I have felt very strongly about drinking. Blame it on my conservative upbringing or my narrow-minded views (as may seem to u), but I have never found a reason convincing enough to approve alcohol or its habit. I cannot take it or approve of it just to be hip and happening’. Now if that makes me backward then I am proud to be one.

Every day I read and hear about the crimes happening under the spell of alcohol, be it drunken drivers killing innocent lives, heinous acts with women, verbal duels or violence. I have often seen people overdrinking or “getting Full-Talli” and later making a complete fool out of themselves only to other’s embarrassment. Not only this, violent wives being abused by sloshed husbands has become an everyday ritual for numerous households all over.

Aren’t these reasons strong enough to abstain from it? And if that’s not enough then there is research that shows regular drinking could lead to permanent depression. So when alcohol paralyzes one’s rationality, sobriety and senses then why do people still indulge in it? Why do people lose their self-control in front of this charmer? Why can’t people realize that alcohol enters in their system like a devil coming in sheep skin?

Sadly alcohol has assumed ubiquity for all occasions, emotions and society today. Be it club, lounges or bar one finds alcohol as the primary characteristic there. Everyone seems to have become kinda dependent upon it. Be it to shake a leg or to converse with a friend or to feel alive or for some other reason, people first need a drink. Go to a disco and you’ll find young guys and girls dancing to deafening music, looking for relaxation in the darkness, under those neon lights gulping peg after peg even if they have to settle for hangovers instead of sleep later. Everybody feels that it will make them forget all pain and problems. But they fail to understand that it does not solve the problem. It just temporarily blinds them to it. And in their illusion of liberation, they even lose their precious time on hangovers instead of concentrating on the issue at hand.

Let us assume for a sec we know all the reasons why people booze. Now let me ask something? The same reasons apply to non drinkers also then what is it that stops them from taking it up? Or is it just the matter of strong will and determination? Ask Yourself Guys what is your reason to take it? The ones mentioned above or something else? Or maybe you don’t know? Have never asked yourself yet? Are you doing it merely because everybody else is doing it? Don’t answer me. Answer your conscience. I know you will not admit it because you need a reason to continue doing it.

I know I am going to invite a lot of people’s wrath but for once Think Guys. Why are you adding to life’s brevity and uncertainty by surrendering to alcohol? Lounging, clubbing, drinking… none is wrong. The fallacy is in your dependency on it. Don’t create a fake world to celebrate life or to handle the blows of the real world. When you start wrong, how can the end be right? Alcohol is neither a taboo nor poison. But it does not take long for its magic to turn into sorcery. Life is just so beautiful and so magical to waste it for surreal things.

But whatever be your take on it let me know what do you have to say about it? Who knows you become the first person on this earth to convince me about it? What say?

17 comments:

Comfortably Numb said...

Yea..The most amazing thing is that a lot of my friends say- "You are an idiot dude. Drinking is good for health"
And I'm like..Yea right..You are in perfect shape.
Seriously there is really no reason why people should drink. Its just that their conscious mind allows them and their unconscious mind relishes it :P

But then I have never had problems with people who drink *in limits*.

Cheers!

Anonymous said...

Drinking or not to is an individual choice and then he has got to set limits on it before it gets nasty and out of hand.....

its an evil thing, no doubt about it, but then it has to get to the boozer s mind, which it doesnt...

The Furobiker said...

its about personal choice is all i cn say..

Mez said...

More than the after effects of boozin, what puzzles me is how can anyone njoi anytin tht's so bitter in taste. Lol...and tht's what keeps in away from boozin.neva experienecd 'gettin high' thingy..donno how lurin can that be to make people just go gulpin down beyong limits.Thtz totally crazy!

Rià said...

Dont worry sweetie u hav full support from me!coz even i do not believe in drinking jus for the sake of it and jus to look cool. I dont question ppl who drink but i try to ensure tht ppl who matter to me dont get dependent on it. Basically its a matter of personal choice where in ppl dont want to admit tht they r dependent on tht habit.

Anonymous said...

Hallo guys,

Whatever the discussion going on here on the informative and important issue....I don't mind...

But I would like to ask you one question here...is 90ml ok for health?....

Parul Gupta said...

hi guys...

good to find there r people who agree with me on this....yes u all r right...it is indeed abt personal choice n i m not a preacher...but yes it irks u only when it starts affecting other people,....take care

Parul Gupta said...

@news-n-views

ha ha...ur comment was very funny...saw ur blog...adding u up

Si_Lee said...

he he .. if theres something u like to eat ... and i ask you why ? what chance is it that u will use its advantages to health as the reason ??
the problem is not boozing.. problem is not knowing where to stop..domestic abuse and all tht .. dn blame alcohol .. its just the persons real side coming out ... its the person u ought to despise..I am nt a regular .. but yes i like tht occassional beer with my dad on a week end or that one party with friends in a month ... hey if i made u drink 4 ltrs of coffee in 30 minutes it wud do the same damage .. the issue here hud according to me be irresponsible drinking ..

Solitaire said...

I think that a lot of youngsters are curious to know what's so great about it and why its taboo until a certain age. So the moment they have access to it, they go berserk. Then again, there is the whole Western culture influence which is making all the kids in India go bonkers!

Parul Gupta said...

@ descrying the shadow....
hey i agree with u...the prob is def unrestrained and regular drinking...guess u havent read my article completely....my conclusion is the same as urs...

Prakhar said...

".. drinking… none is wrong. The fallacy is in your dependency on it."

exactly..thats very well said..!

Quietude N said...

addiction of nythin turns out to b bitter n thats a general experince in life but abt "youth n booze" relish the better part of evry age...rest the whole life revolves around fallacy of life itself...u write brilliantly ma'am.

Keshi said...

Some youngsters think it's a Fashion to get trashed, sadly. But its not. Everything has a limit and knowing that is the real Fashion :)


**So when alcohol paralyzes one’s rationality, sobriety and senses then why do people still indulge in it?


Some ppl get drunk to forget their blues..but they dun realise that its only temporary..when they wake up after a good sleep, all the problems r still there.


Keshi.

Anonymous said...

well I agree with u.... drinking is very bad for health and society.

Even I was brought in the way that my mind has set against the drinkers but sometime I also feel pity, why are they playing such an unsafe business.....

--anujjha

peter said...

hey great !
even the title is similar kind of !!
good !

Parul Gupta said...

@ peter...

m glad u liked it...

cheers
parul